¿Qué te pasa?

(useful questions)
A2 (¡Vas bien!)Used EVERYWHERE 🇲🇽Standard Spanish 😌

🧠 What it means

This one’s a super common (and universal!) way to ask if someone’s upset, acting weird, or in a bad mood. 👉 What’s wrong with you? / What’s the matter? / What’s your problem? 💡Tone is literally of the essence here! Said gently, it’s “What’s wrong?”; said sharply, it’s “What’s your problem?” (eek!).

🌪️ When to whip it out

Whenever you want to ask why someone looks sad or is acting off:

¿Qué te pasa, wey? Te ves todo bajoneado.
What’s up with you, dude? You look all mopey.

But it can also be used more aggressively to call out annoying behavior:

Oye, ¿qué te pasa? No son tus cosas
Hey, what’s wrong with you? That’s not your stuff.

⚠️ Tone

✅ Neutral if said with concern.

✅ Can be confrontational if said with a sharper tone.

🔁 Similar chunks

¿Qué tienes?¿Qué te pasó?¿Qué sucede?¿Qué traes?¿Qué onda contigo?¿Estás bien?¿Todo bien?¿Qué mosca te picó?¿Y ahora?

🦜 El Rincón del Cotorreo

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Related to this is "Te pasas!" in your latest download of 50 Mexican phrases. I was wondering if you could say: "No quiero pasarme, pero..." to say something like: I don't mean to go too far, but...

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@davidr322@ Hi! Yes, but people tend to say it as a complete expression, like: "no quiero pasarme de la raya, pero", or "no quiero pasarme de lanza, pero". That last one is particularly common in Mexico City, amongst Chilangos. Hope it helps :)